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Resilience: Attitudes and Skills

Resilience: Attitudes and Skills

Resilience depends on supportive, responsive relationships and mastering a set of capabilities that can help us respond and adapt to adversity in healthy ways: . . Personal Control Resilient people focus on events over which they have some influence or control rather than adopting what researchers have referred to as a “victim’s mentality” and constantly […]

30th April 2015 | By More
Be a supportive friend through divorce

Be a supportive friend through divorce

There are countless ways to help a person through divorce, but all of these involve understanding your place in the divorce process. I have been a practicing attorney for over 30 years with the cornerstone of my practice being family law. Family law involves divorce, child support, custody and spousal support. I believe divorce has […]

22nd April 2015 | By More
The Cost of Divorce

The Cost of Divorce

The Cost of Divorce with Children  If you have children and decide to move out of the marital home, you need to consider the cost of having two homes. In the beginning of your divorce, you and/or your spouse will be faced with many extra living expenses which will make it difficult to live the […]

21st April 2015 | By More
Letter to my Husband’s Ex-Wife

Letter to my Husband’s Ex-Wife

Dear Ex-Wife, I love my husband dearly and I am trying my best to understand your situation. Yes, I know you have a history and precious children. I have no desire to erase you or take your place as their mother. Be assured that I realise I’ve only heard one side of the story, therefore, I do […]

21st April 2015 | By More
10 Ways to Reduce Drama Instantly

10 Ways to Reduce Drama Instantly

“Drama does not just walk into your life. Either you create it, invite it, or associate with it.” – Unknown . Drama demands attention. It’s a way of making a person, an action or a thing seem more important than it is. Drama exists in all facets of our lives, and not many can admit to […]

20th April 2015 | By More
Save Money like Wealthy People

Save Money like Wealthy People

There’s no one among us who does not like to have more money. If you sometimes wonder about how the rich and successful have so much of it though, you need to read on. We have compiled a list of hacks that you can apply in your daily life to save money the way wealthy […]

19th April 2015 | By More
A new perspective on wealth

A new perspective on wealth

Has your divorce left you homeless, in debt and feeling stressed, anxious or powerless? Do you want a new perspective on generating wealth and have financial peace of mind? Linda’s Abundance by Design offers an online training course, designed to help you take back your power around money. In this course you will learn: Financial planning […]

19th April 2015 | By More
Trauma Release Exercise

Trauma Release Exercise

Not One for Counselling? Do TRE! Divorce increases the normal stress of everyday life and the body tends to contract muscles as a coping mechanism, which manifest in aches, pains and even illness. Practicing Trauma Release Exercises (TRE) can prevent these chronic conditions and relieve the acute discomfort caused by trauma. This revolutionary body-centered method […]

19th April 2015 | By More
Hope after Divorce

Hope after Divorce

The emotional tidal wave of divorce leaves people with a wide range of emotions, including sadness, surprise, anger, anxiety, fear and feeling lost. Perhaps the most common emotion is a hopeless feeling. People ask the question: Is there hope after divorce? Is there hope for my life in the future? The question is an honest, […]

19th April 2015 | By More
5 Daily Rituals to Keep You Balanced

5 Daily Rituals to Keep You Balanced

Today, in our too-fast, information-overloaded society, we’ve lost much of our connection to the earth, to spirit, to nature’s cycles, to our own cycles. And yet, we still need things to feed us, to ground us, to give us courage and connection. Good rituals are essential to our emotional, psychological, and spiritual health. To help […]

19th April 2015 | By More