Category: Happiness
eBook: 5 Steps to a Fair Divorce
It’s here! My first eBook in the series, 5 Steps to a Fair Divorce has been released: This eBook, is the first in a series of 5 eBooks, containing an in-depth examination of topics, including action steps to be taken and relevant matters to ponder as you journey through your divorce process. It is a revolutionary […]
7 Steps to Decide if Divorce is Right for You
I wrote an article recently about the long and winding road I took to deciding to divorce. Although I think every step on that road was necessary, it might have been an easier and quicker journey if I’d had a few tools and tips to ease the decision-making process. If you’re still on the fence […]
Mother-Child Bond vs Father-Child Bond
Equal Parenting is really possible. Fathers can do just as well as mothers, as seen in this interesting perspective on how we have evolved as families. Is the long-held belief that mothers have a stronger bond with their children really true? Scholars investigate this theory and examine how fathers interact with their children. From the […]
The Freedom of Divorce
Freedom from the Past brings Freedom to build a Future As we were celebrating Freedom Day in South Africa recently, commemorating the transitions our country and its people have gone through over the past 20 odd years, it made me think about the freedom that the transition of divorce brings. Don’t’ get me wrong, I’m […]
Ex-Valentines Day Cards
In the spirit of civilised, fair divorce, we created some Ex-Valentine’s Day Cards. If you need a bit of humour to lighten up or really want to wish your ex well, you are welcome to share these complimentary cards. (Simply click on the image and right-click again to save as, then forward to the recipient) […]
Thank Your Ex Once In A While
What are you grateful for? Mostly, we appreciate the special people in our lives, the roof over our heads, our favourite things we are fortunate to possess, good health and so on. We are inspired to adopt an “attitude of gratitude”, which is wonderful, but, in the world of divorce where I work daily, there is hardly […]
Two Books about Divorce
. Recognised as an Exemplary Christian Self-Help Book by the Illumination Book Awards, Peace after Divorce: Choosing Concrete Actions Rooted in Faith, helps you with real-life issues to change your life for the better. . Author Renee Smith Ettline, founder of After Divorce Ministries, shares her own painful experiences of divorce and her journey to […]
Free Divorce Test: How Are You Doing
Most men and women suffer through the devastating effects of divorce without realising that there is an easy way to evaluate their unique situation and start a successful healing process. I took the test within minutes myself and the instant results were spot on, with comprehensive feedback and helpful tips. This Free Test, developed by trauma therapist Adele Theron, gives you the platform […]
10 Signs Your Kid Is Handling Divorce Well
We all know divorce can take its toll on both parents and their children. However, that doesn’t have to be the case. Parents who focus their love and attention on safeguarding their children’s well-being, who provide security, make sound decisions and keep their children away from adult conflict and anxiety, have children that grow up […]
Indulge the Joy – it’s the Best Therapy
When we decide to get divorced, we often go to extremes to secure the best possible advice and counselling money can buy and then we take comfort in the perception that we are acting in the best interest of all involved. Family is after all, the most important thing in this world and we’ll stop […]