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Spousal Maintenance Does More Harm Than Good

Spousal Maintenance Does More Harm Than Good

The House of Lords in England recently passed a bill calling for a three year cap to be placed on spousal maintenance payments, heralding the end of a long tradition of awarding women endless support by their ex-spouses. About time! Why are ex-wives (especially housewives and stay-at-home mothers) so often still awarded such large sums […]

10th March 2017 | By | Reply More
Switching Schools is Difficult for Children of Divorce

Switching Schools is Difficult for Children of Divorce

For children of divorce, routines can be a safety net, which allows individuals to escape the harsh realities of parental discord. They seek comfort in the mundane, day-to-day activities of school, but for many children of divorce, their lives are being upended through moving to a new house and switching to a new school. It’s […]

7th March 2017 | By | Reply More
Testimonials

Testimonials

This is what people are saying about the Fair Divorce initiative: “I never looked at my divorce as deep as this. I am fascinated with the Divorce Mandala. Thank you for sharing.” C Anne “You have blessed me more than you will ever know.” E Santapaga   “Wow Sinta… I really like your site. And great […]

22nd February 2017 | By | Reply More
Ex-Valentines Day Cards

Ex-Valentines Day Cards

In the spirit of civilised, fair divorce, we created some Ex-Valentine’s Day Cards. If you need a bit of humour to lighten up or really want to wish your ex well, you are welcome to share these complimentary cards. (Simply click on the image and right-click again to save as, then forward to the recipient)   […]

13th February 2017 | By More
Fair Divorce Expo

Fair Divorce Expo

The Fair Divorce Expo, is a first of its kind and the first of an annual event, offering support, guidance and practical solutions to all families going through divorce. This “One-Stop-Divorce-Shop” event will host: Presentations/ Workshops & Discussions Introductions to Books/Films/Other Exhibitions & Special Expo Offers . If you would like to participate as a service […]

7th February 2017 | By More
Unashamedly Ethical

Unashamedly Ethical

.  .  .  .  . . Sinta Ebersohn has made the following commitments: To be entirely truthful in all I say. To be faithful to my family relationships. To do nothing out of selfish ambition or conceit, but to look out for the interests of others. To refuse to elicit, accept or pay any bribes […]

2nd February 2017 | By More
7 Ways Infidelity Destroys Your Children

7 Ways Infidelity Destroys Your Children

When you decide to be unfaithful to your partner, you also decide to destroy your children. The day I held my daughter for the first time, an immense (almost impossible to bear) sense of responsibility came into my life. Her sky-blue eyes looked at me intensely as if to say: “Here I am, now you […]

26th January 2017 | By More
Uncoupling

Uncoupling

Uncoupling by  Sara Davison, is based on her own experience of divorce as well as her work as a divorce coach. Having worked with various top personal development coaches and won an APCTC (Association of Professional Coaches, Trainers & Consultants) Award in 2015, Sara aims to teach people how to take control and create the […]

5th December 2016 | By More
Thank Your Ex Once In A While

Thank Your Ex Once In A While

What are you grateful for? Mostly, we appreciate the special people in our lives, the roof over our heads, our favourite things we are fortunate to possess, good health and so on. We are inspired to adopt an “attitude of gratitude”, which is wonderful, but, in the world of divorce where I work daily, there is hardly […]

25th November 2016 | By More
Two Books about Divorce

Two Books about Divorce

. Recognised as an Exemplary Christian Self-Help Book by the Illumination Book Awards, Peace after Divorce: Choosing Concrete Actions Rooted in Faith, helps you with real-life issues to change your life for the better. . Author Renee Smith Ettline, founder of After Divorce Ministries, shares her own painful experiences of divorce and her journey to […]

28th October 2016 | By More