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Spousal Maintenance Does More Harm Than Good

Spousal Maintenance Does More Harm Than Good

The House of Lords in England recently passed a bill calling for a three year cap to be placed on spousal maintenance payments, heralding the end of a long tradition of awarding women endless support by their ex-spouses. About time! Why are ex-wives (especially housewives and stay-at-home mothers) so often still awarded such large sums […]

10th March 2017 | By | Reply More
Angelina & Brad Disgrace Wedding Vows

Angelina & Brad Disgrace Wedding Vows

Why we have to keep our promises, especially when we get divorced. We don’t know exactly what Angie and Brad promised each other on their wedding day, but from the tabloids we do know that their children helped to write their vows and one of them was “to say sorry, whenever they had a fight”. […]

27th February 2017 | By | Reply More
Divorce: The War Stops Here

Divorce: The War Stops Here

. How can anyone with first-hand experience of this dreadful tragedy, advise others to engage in a legal war to divorce? . . In her blog about divorce, Morgan Deane advises the readers of her Greengirlsguide as follows: “Peace? Hah! Now the War begins for real, so you’d better equip yourself with some balls and […]

16th February 2017 | By | Reply More
Is Media Fueling the Divorce War?

Is Media Fueling the Divorce War?

. . News24 HOT TOPICS today: “Morgan Deane talks divorce: Now the war begins for real” . Divorce is an extremely sensitive family matter, notorious for its devastating effects on spouses, their children, their extended families, friends, colleagues and even new partners. The destruction is more often than not caused by the acrimonious litigation extended […]

14th February 2017 | By | Reply More
Ex-Valentines Day Cards

Ex-Valentines Day Cards

In the spirit of civilised, fair divorce, we created some Ex-Valentine’s Day Cards. If you need a bit of humour to lighten up or really want to wish your ex well, you are welcome to share these complimentary cards. (Simply click on the image and right-click again to save as, then forward to the recipient)   […]

13th February 2017 | By More
Who needs an Attorney, if 90% of Divorces Settle Out of Court?

Who needs an Attorney, if 90% of Divorces Settle Out of Court?

It’s time for a NEW Strategy! When people decide to get divorced, what is the first thing they do? They consult an attorney at a considerable fee who proceeds with issuing summons to the other party. This legal document accuses their spouse of some or other wrong-doing and literally threaten them to incur even more […]

4th February 2017 | By More
Uncoupling

Uncoupling

Uncoupling by  Sara Davison, is based on her own experience of divorce as well as her work as a divorce coach. Having worked with various top personal development coaches and won an APCTC (Association of Professional Coaches, Trainers & Consultants) Award in 2015, Sara aims to teach people how to take control and create the […]

5th December 2016 | By More
Thank Your Ex Once In A While

Thank Your Ex Once In A While

What are you grateful for? Mostly, we appreciate the special people in our lives, the roof over our heads, our favourite things we are fortunate to possess, good health and so on. We are inspired to adopt an “attitude of gratitude”, which is wonderful, but, in the world of divorce where I work daily, there is hardly […]

25th November 2016 | By More
The Heritage of Divorce

The Heritage of Divorce

. What Impact does Your Divorce Have on Your Family Heritage? As we celebrate our Heritage during the month of September in South Africa, honouring our diverse cultures and the various legacies inherited from past generations, I would like to explore the true extent of heritage for families. . Through the ages, mankind has always […]

25th September 2016 | By More
Why and How to Buy Your Ex a Gift

Why and How to Buy Your Ex a Gift

More often than not, separation and divorce leaves a bitter taste in our mouths. The last thing we want to do, is lavish our ex with gifts. However, the positive energy that emanates from giving something in good faith, might just be what you need to establish a good relationship for the future. . Why? […]

29th August 2016 | By More