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Divorce Rituals – an example

Divorce Rituals – an example

You can do this on your own, but if the partner you are separating from is willing and a fair divorce is your mutual goal, then share this ceremony. It will lay down wonderful loving foundations for your future. Ceremony: You will need a candle (white or violet colour), a bowl of water, sandalwood incense […]

15th May 2015 | By More
Divorce Transition Rituals

Divorce Transition Rituals

Marking the divorce transition with rituals Divorce is a major life transition, though as yet, one without a ritual to mark and support the passage and to orient the community to the family’s transition. The legal process is the only current social context for this important and personal transition. We need to create a more […]

14th May 2015 | By More
Forgiveness

Forgiveness

As he was about to climb yet another dune, his heart whispered, “Be aware of the place where you are brought to tears. That’s where I am, and that’s where your treasure is.” ~ pg. 168 The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho We all breathe together! All of life breathes together! The air I breathe out, […]

6th May 2015 | By More
Happy (Divorced) Mother’s Day

Happy (Divorced) Mother’s Day

Once a year, we have the opportunity to honour our Mothers and show our appreciation for everything that they mean to us. It is also an opportunity to teach our children to consider the relationships they have with the women who gave birth to them and the roles that their mothers play in their lives. […]

6th May 2015 | By More
Hope after Divorce

Hope after Divorce

The emotional tidal wave of divorce leaves people with a wide range of emotions, including sadness, surprise, anger, anxiety, fear and feeling lost. Perhaps the most common emotion is a hopeless feeling. People ask the question: Is there hope after divorce? Is there hope for my life in the future? The question is an honest, […]

19th April 2015 | By More
5 Daily Rituals to Keep You Balanced

5 Daily Rituals to Keep You Balanced

Today, in our too-fast, information-overloaded society, we’ve lost much of our connection to the earth, to spirit, to nature’s cycles, to our own cycles. And yet, we still need things to feed us, to ground us, to give us courage and connection. Good rituals are essential to our emotional, psychological, and spiritual health. To help […]

19th April 2015 | By More
Compassion in Divorce

Compassion in Divorce

Divorce is ranked the second most stressful life experience, after the death of a spouse. While some marriages end amicably, many end with partners feeling angry, resentful or overwhelmed with emotional pain. If we listen compassionately to our spouses and have the ability to translate their loudness or aggression into the feelings and unmet needs that they have, […]

19th April 2015 | By More
Is Litigation Worth It?

Is Litigation Worth It?

What happens in reality is that the litigation process takes hold of both clients and carries them away like a raging river. They fall into it and almost lose control over what happens. The attorneys do the best they can, but the way they are trained is to simply force the next legal step on […]

14th April 2015 | By More
Courage

Courage

‘Healing requires taking action – it is not a passive event.’ ~ Caroline Myss A divorce can be traumatic for a family; and it can impact on the greater community. It seems to be a very real part of our modern society and no matter how often divorce happens, it is a death of sorts […]

13th April 2015 | By More
For Better or Worse?

For Better or Worse?

. What is the worst thing that could possibly happen to your marriage? DIVORCE ! . Are you feeling overwhelmed, disillusioned, heart-broken, desperate, ashamed, afraid, hurt, betrayed, disappointed, angry etc.? STOP! Remember your wedding VOWS? Was it something like this? to have and to hold, for better or worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness […]

1st April 2015 | By More