Perspectives

The Lighthouse Keepers: Shining a Light on Reality

In a world which can feel unpredictable, terrifying and unsafe, the concept of Lighthouse Keeping is one which I use, to enable a sense of stability and security within for those who have suffered from the relational trauma of being rejected by a child in divorce and separation. In such circumstances, where parents are the …

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Putting Children First is Toxic!

Yes, you read correctly. When going through a divorce or blending a new family, putting the children’s needs above everyone else’s, is toxic. In fact, it is not a good idea for any family. It is a great recipe for unhealthy parent-child relationships and dysfunctional families. Since I founded this platform in 2015, I’ve been …

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While You Were Gone

Printable Scrapbook Templates for Alienated Families Available for instant download on Etsy I have a long family history of alienation and only when I went through my own gruelling divorce, did I become aware of the term parental alienation and the horrifying extent to which families are affected by it all over the world. Since …

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Meaningful Parenting

What you should know about parenting styles “As long as I love my kids and keep their best interests at heart, there is no right or wrong way to parent.” – Anonymous As parents, we all want to do right by our children. We want to give them a memorable childhood. We want to teach …

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Declutter & Get Organised During Divorce

Sinta Ebersohn, the founder of www.fairdivorce.co.za interviews Michelle Sarao, professional organiser from Divorce Rx, about creating order in your life, home and work spaces during and after divorce. Michelle offers several practical tips and valuable insight into the often daunting task that we put off for as long as possible. Subscribe to Sinta Ebersohn’s Youtube Channel to …

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Family Contribution Calculator

Quantify your contribution to your family in relation to the contribution of your partner / spouse / co-parent and apply the results to obtain meaningful future goals for your family. I developed a product to settle one of the biggest and most frustrating arguments couples with children have, whether they are together, married, separated or …

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Sign Language: Challenges of the Deaf in Divorce

Sinta Ebersohn interviews Retha van der Merwe and Andries van Niekerk of the National Institute for the Deaf (NID), about the challenges deaf and hard of hearing people face during the divorce process and the role of sign language. Subscribe to Sinta Ebersohn’s Youtube Channel to view past and future interviews Subscribe to the Fair Divorce Podcast to listen …

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Sexual Health & Relationships

Intimacy and Sex – How it Impacts our Relationships Subscribe to Sinta Ebersohn’s Youtube Channel to view past and future interviews Subscribe to the Fair Divorce Podcast to listen to all her interviews and other discussions. Sinta Ebersohn recently interviewed Cheryl Reum to celebrate World Sexual Health Day on 4 September. Watch this uninhibited conversation …

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Parental Alienation

Interviews with Alienated Familiy Members All Over the World Subscribe to Sinta Ebersohn’s Youtube Channel to see all her past and future interviews. Subscribe to the Fair Divorce Podcast to listen to all her interviews and other discussions. Alienated Grandmother Alienated grandmother Debbie Grande shares the shocking story of how her daughter was systematically alienated …

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Child Maintenance Difficulties

Support for Parents Going Through The Child Maintenance System CMDSA CMDSA is an acronym for Child Maintenance Difficulties in South Africa, a Facebook group founded by Felicity Guest in July 2014.  She started the group to offer support to people going through the maintenance system as a result of her own traumatic experience with a fraudulent …

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