Parenting Plan

When Children are Weaponised

I was recently interviewed by Jeff Kahn on his programme The Best of Life, Love and Fruit Salad on Zone Radio, our local community radio station here in Cape Town. We talked about Parental Alienation, specifically the reality of what happens when children are used as weapons in high-conflict divorce. It is a topic I care about […]

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Making Children Travel Light Is Emotionally Heavy

An authoritative parenting perspective on belongings, boundaries and building resilience through separation When parents separate or divorce, whether amicably or through high conflict, decisions are often made quickly in the name of practicality, peacekeeping or emotional survival. One of the most common of these decisions is this: the child moves between homes with only the

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Second Annual FREE Online Divorce Summit 2025

Following the resounding success of last year’s inaugural event, the Divorce Summit returns on 25 June 2025, aligning with Global Fair Divorce Day to provide free, accessible support to people around the world experiencing separation, divorce and family restructuring. Hosted by award-winning mentor and founder of Get Up and Grow, Sinta Ebersohn, this one-day online

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Parental Alienation

Here are the first three podcasts in my series on Parental Alienation. It’s a term that stirs deep emotions, fierce debate and heartbreaking stories. But what is it really? And why is it that in the storm of a high-conflict divorce, children – and sometimes entire branches of a family tree – are left isolated,

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Financial Abuse

Financial Abuse (Interview with Felicity Guest): Maintenance defaulters who withhold financial support for their children, put the primary caregiving parent in an unbearable predicament and it is exasperated by a broken system that fails to protect vulnerable victims. Listen to the Podcast. Watch this extract from the interview(30 sec)

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50/50 Shared Parenting in Divorce

The Pros and Cons The decision to implement 50/50 shared parenting in a divorce is one of the most significant choices a family can face. The division of time between parents may seem like an equitable solution, but what truly matters is how it impacts the children involved. Children’s developmental stages, emotional needs and resilience

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Putting Children First is Toxic!

Yes, you read correctly. When going through a divorce or blending a new family, putting the children’s needs above everyone else’s, is toxic. In fact, it is not a good idea for any family. It is a great recipe for unhealthy parent-child relationships and dysfunctional families. Since I founded this platform in 2015, I’ve been

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Meaningful Parenting

What you should know about parenting styles “As long as I love my kids and keep their best interests at heart, there is no right or wrong way to parent.” – Anonymous As parents, we all want to do right by our children. We want to give them a memorable childhood. We want to teach

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Drug & Alcohol Detection in Divorce Cases

Sinta Ebersohn, interviews Forensic Toxicologist Dr Tim Lourens about the variety of drug & alcohol tests available on the market, which are most reliable and application protocol. He also offers valuable insight into the impact of allegations and proof of abuse in divorce cases. Subscribe to Sinta Ebersohn’s Youtube Channel to view past and future interviews Subscribe

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Family Contribution Calculator

Quantify your contribution to your family in relation to the contribution of your partner / spouse / co-parent and apply the results to obtain meaningful future goals for your family. I developed a product to settle one of the biggest and most frustrating arguments couples with children have, whether they are together, married, separated or

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