Trauma

Understanding Coercive Control

Identification With The Aggressor: In the Lives of Children of Divorce and Separation I am often asked why children align with controlling parents and reject a parent they have witnessed being abused, the answer is simple, although the dynamic which traps the child in the mind of an abuser is not. Children align with a …

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Nuclear & Extended Family Dynamics

The Impact of Separation, Divorce and Blending New Families In the intricate landscape of family dynamics, the processes of separation, divorce and blending new families can introduce profound shifts in both nuclear and extended family structures. These transitions carry far-reaching implications, influencing the well-being of family members and shaping the resilience and adaptability of familial …

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Intimate Partner Betrayal Trauma

Intimate Partner Betrayal is a profound emotional and psychological trauma. In this video I explain the immense impact on the betrayed partner and the far reaching effects on their past, present and future Self. When your partner or significant other betrays your mutual trust relationship it affects so many areas of your live adversely: emotionally, …

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The Lighthouse Keepers: Shining a Light on Reality

In a world which can feel unpredictable, terrifying and unsafe, the concept of Lighthouse Keeping is one which I use, to enable a sense of stability and security within for those who have suffered from the relational trauma of being rejected by a child in divorce and separation. In such circumstances, where parents are the …

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The Power of Mental Health

Nurturing Your Well-Being In our fast-paced world it’s easy to overlook the importance of mental health. However, taking care of our minds is just as vital as caring for our physical well-being. Let’s look into the significance of mental health and explore some common mental health challenges people face. Additionally, I’ll provide valuable insights into …

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Putting Children First is Toxic!

Yes, you read correctly. When going through a divorce or blending a new family, putting the children’s needs above everyone else’s, is toxic. In fact, it is not a good idea for any family. It is a great recipe for unhealthy parent-child relationships and dysfunctional families. Since I founded this platform in 2015, I’ve been …

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While You Were Gone

Printable Scrapbook Templates for Alienated Families Available for instant download on Etsy I have a long family history of alienation and only when I went through my own gruelling divorce, did I become aware of the term parental alienation and the horrifying extent to which families are affected by it all over the world. Since …

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Fatherless Daughters & Adult Relationships

Sinta Ebersohn interviews Rachel Isabela Castillo of Heal Sing Love, about growing up without a present father and how that influences choices and behaviour in adult relationships and break-ups or divorce. Subscribe to Sinta Ebersohn’s Youtube Channel to view past and future interviews Subscribe to the Fair Divorce Podcast to listen to all her interviews and other discussions. When …

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Grief and Trauma in Separation & Divorce

Sinta Ebersohn interviews Karien Jordaan, Grief & Trauma Therapist as they discuss the impact of separation and divorce on families and how she provides support through this life-changing event. Subscribe to Sinta Ebersohn’s Youtube Channel to view past and future interviews Subscribe to the Fair Divorce Podcast to listen to all her interviews and other discussions. Divorce is traumatic …

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