Trauma

Financial Abuse

Financial Abuse (Interview with Felicity Guest): Maintenance defaulters who withhold financial support for their children, put the primary caregiving parent in an unbearable predicament and it is exasperated by a broken system that fails to protect vulnerable victims. Listen to the Podcast. Watch this extract from the interview(30 sec)

FREE ONLINE DIVORCE SUMMIT on Global Fair Divorce Day (25 June 2024)

On Global Fair Divorce Day, 25 June, I’m hosting a FREE Online DIVORCE SUMMIT It will be an incredible collection of interviews with 30+ Experts who share their knowledge as well as Divorced and Alienated Families who tell their heart-breaking stories of triumph over trauma, from all over the world. Sign up NOW to secure …

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Parental Alienation

An Underhanded Tactic to Win Divorce Disputes Parental Alienation refers to a disturbing phenomenon where one parent systematically manipulates a child to reject or fear the other parent, often during or after a divorce or separation. From a legal standpoint, it involves the intentional undermining of the child’s relationship with the targeted parent through various …

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Understanding Coercive Control

Identification With The Aggressor: In the Lives of Children of Divorce and Separation I am often asked why children align with controlling parents and reject a parent they have witnessed being abused, the answer is simple, although the dynamic which traps the child in the mind of an abuser is not. Children align with a …

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Nuclear & Extended Family Dynamics

The Impact of Separation, Divorce and Blending New Families In the intricate landscape of family dynamics, the processes of separation, divorce and blending new families can introduce profound shifts in both nuclear and extended family structures. These transitions carry far-reaching implications, influencing the well-being of family members and shaping the resilience and adaptability of familial …

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Intimate Partner Betrayal Trauma

Intimate Partner Betrayal is a profound emotional and psychological trauma. In this video I explain the immense impact on the betrayed partner and the far reaching effects on their past, present and future Self. When your partner or significant other betrays your mutual trust relationship it affects so many areas of your live adversely: emotionally, …

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The Lighthouse Keepers: Shining a Light on Reality

In a world which can feel unpredictable, terrifying and unsafe, the concept of Lighthouse Keeping is one which I use, to enable a sense of stability and security within for those who have suffered from the relational trauma of being rejected by a child in divorce and separation. In such circumstances, where parents are the …

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The Power of Mental Health

Nurturing Your Well-Being In our fast-paced world it’s easy to overlook the importance of mental health. However, taking care of our minds is just as vital as caring for our physical well-being. Let’s look into the significance of mental health and explore some common mental health challenges people face. Additionally, I’ll provide valuable insights into …

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Putting Children First is Toxic!

Yes, you read correctly. When going through a divorce or blending a new family, putting the children’s needs above everyone else’s, is toxic. In fact, it is not a good idea for any family. It is a great recipe for unhealthy parent-child relationships and dysfunctional families. Since I founded this platform in 2015, I’ve been …

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