Today is Evaluate your Life day – take this opportunity to reflect on your career, your family life and your relationships. Here are 20 questions you need to answer:
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Do you have goals? What are your dreams – and nightmares?
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Have you made a list of your priorities?
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Do you have friends who support you or friends who drain your energy?
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Do you surround yourself with people who are happy and successful?
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Do you create your own identity or do you allow other people to define you?
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How do you approach your love-life? Are you rational and calm or do your emotions get the better of you?
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Have you become cynical or are you still in touch with your inner child?
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How much time do you spend doing the things that you really love?
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Are you satisfied with your own achievements or do you compare yourself with the success of others?
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Are you able to admit your mistakes and rectify them or are you going to beat yourself up about it for the rest of your life?
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Is your career going exactly as planned or do you feel trapped in an unsatisfying job, or are you anxious about not having a job?
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Are you able to delegate or are you taking everything upon your own shoulders?
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Is your lifestyle healthy or do you need to make and effort to get active and fit?
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Are you stuck living in the past or have you dealt with it and are you ready to face a realistic future?
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Are you able to forgive yourself and others?
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Are your relationships with your family strenuous or do you get along well?
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How resilient are you when facing a set-back?
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Do you have a healthy self-esteem or are you unhappy with yourself?
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How much down-time do you schedule for yourself?
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Do you know your way forward?
Posted by Sinta Ebersohn (Creator of fairdivorce.co.za – Stellenbosch RSA)